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What is it about lesbianism that fascinates men? Why are men intrigued and drawn to lesbians? The sight of two women holding hands or arms always piques most men's interest. I even know some gay men who admit that they are "turned on" at the sight of two women making passionate love. Men buy erotic magazines and adult DVDs of lesbian erotica. Men nowadays seem to consider a threesome with two bisexual girls the most crucial sexual conquest. However, is it right to compel girls to engage in lesbian acts just to satisfy a man? Shouldn't it be the woman who decides to "reward" her man with the joys of sharing a Sapphic encounter, which in itself is a very personal experience? | Of course you are exactly right - sexuality should certainly not be forced, or even pressured in any way. Girls and women should be able to choose whatever sexual activities they want, and their limits should be respected.
But as for why it's a turn on, there are a couple of major factors IMHO.
First, and most obvious, is the fact that heterosexual guys like women! Two women is twice as attractive - two (or four, as the case may be...) of all the bits and pieces that we find sexually attractive and stimulating. That's without even getting into the whole "variety" aspect of sexuality that both men and women sometimes find stimulating - two different minds and bodies with different features, attitudes, and outlooks are easier to find in two people of the opposite sex than in one.
Second is the fantasy factor that many guys have (but few will admit!). The ogling guy at some level thinks that he and he alone would be the one able to sexually stimulate not just one, but two women who are aren't generally attracted to men. This also avoids the complication of male competition and its resulting insecurity that would be present if a male were in the picture. Am I as well endowed as the other guy? as goodlooking? etc. Latent homophobia also plays a part - "Oooh, I might accidentally touch something I don't want to" can put a damper on anything but a two women / one male fantasy.
In all honesty, women are much more attractive figures than men, and I can certainly understand why both men and women would be more attracted to them. | Why are men fascinated by lesbians? Why are men intrigued and drawn to lesbians? The sight of two women holding hands or arms always piques most men's interest. I even know some gay men who admit that the sight of lesbians making love is a turn-on for them. Men buy erotic magazines and adult DVDs of lesbian erotica. Men nowadays seem to consider a threesome with two bisexual girls the most crucial sexual conquest. However, is it right to compel girls to engage in lesbian acts just to satisfy a man? Shouldn't it be the woman who decides to "reward" her man with the joys of sharing a Sapphic encounter, which in itself is a very personal experience? | | You know damn well why, Gail, love of my life. Men want to "conquer" not "cure." After they get their orgasm fix from two bisexual girls, they couldn't care if those chicks keep going at each other until doomsday. The male fantasy has been met. And some of the respondents are right-- no one wants to see Rosie O. get it on with her girlfriend, nice-looking though her girlfriend is. However, I don't think many guys were pulling their puds at the thought of Ellen D. and Anne H. going at it. But to be fair and balanced, I don't think anyone would want to see the Roseanne/Tom Arnold honeymoon videos either. And men who get off on seeing lesbians go at it aren't "closet cases" as the more radically inclined gay and lesbian respondents claim-- it's because they're walking testosterone sacks doing what comes natural to them whenever a hot broad enters their field of vision. Luv ya! | Does he really respect lesbians? If a guy claims to totally respect lesbians, has lesbian friends etc. but still looks at lesbian porn for his own gratification, does he truly respect them? I know it's a strange question, but it popped into my mind following a personal experience and I wondered what opinions people might have.
A good friend of mine has very close friends who are lesbians. He seems totally indifferent to their sexuality (i.e. he's not one of these people who seems to think lesbians were created for his own erotic pleasure!). However, I found (I wasn't looking for it, I just found it!) a load of sapphic/lesbian/girl-on-girl porn on his computer and it's left me a little confused as to whether he really does respect lesbianism as much as he claims to... | If you can only respect groups you have no sexual interest in at all then I only respect guyren and animals.
I think that if he was spying on lesbians having sex then this would be disrespectful. But looking at porn stars having nude fun is just that and nothing more. The porn stars would not consider it to be disrespectful so why should anyone else.
If he was looking at straight porn does that mean he has no respect for any living man or woman as he finds images of nude men and women attractive?
Generally men like lesbian porn because they find nude men unattractive (or are too attracted too them for their own comfort) and not because they think women were created just to satisfy them. I know a lot of women who like porn with gay men in it.
As I said before if finding someone or something sexually appealing is a form of disrespect then I personally won't ever claim to respect adult humans again. | Why are men fascinated by lesbians? Why are men intrigued and drawn to lesbians? The sight of two women holding hands or arms always piques most men's interest. Men buy erotic magazines and adult DVDs of lesbian erotica. Men nowadays seem to consider a threesome with two bisexual girls the most crucial sexual conquest. However, is it right to compel girls to engage in lesbian acts just to satisfy a man? Shouldn't it be the woman who decides to "reward" her man with the joys of sharing a Sapphic encounter, which in itself is a very personal experience? | | some straight men watch too much porn. that stuff they watch is just fantasy. no "real" lesbian is going to let a straight man watch, let alone join in. we're lesbians! that means we're attracted to women! not men! to "compel" girls to engage in acts to "satisfy" the man is selfish as well. unless the girls are bi and into threesomes, then it ain't gonna happen. |
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